9-Year Delivery: Lessons for Parents

 
The parents were alarmed by all the news about rape or child molestation. Moreover, there are rape victims who get pregnant and bear children at elementary school age level. However, parents are expected to not only concerned, but also encourage children to always talk when they are sexually abused.
As reported yesterday, Wednesday (06/02/2013), a 9-year-old girl gave birth to a baby girl in Mexico. The baby girl was born by Caesarean section on 27 January in Zoquipan Hospital, Jalisco, weighing 2.7 kg. Mother and the baby was healthy, but the mother is still 8 years old while pregnant did not understand what was going on. While the baby's father 17-year-old reportedly fled.
Dafne, so this poor girl's name, is not the only child who has become a mother at a very young age. Last year was also reported little girl aged 10 from Colombia who gave birth, and the child 9 year old Chinese girl who gave birth to a baby boy in 2010.
Puberty does happen age 8 years among girls, but parents have a duty to help their children understand what is going on with their bodies. Dafne, for example, reportedly unaware of her pregnancy until the age of seven months pregnant. That's when her boyfriend, 17-year teenager, took her to live with.
Because the girl refused, the boys decided to move to another city. There is a possibility he will be charged with child molestation or rape, depending on the situation.
"Parents (girls) worked all day, and not watching. Therefore they did not realize what was going on," said Lino Ginzalez Corona, a spokeswoman for the prosecutor's office in the state of Jalisco.
We could take a lesson from this incident. This case indicates that most parents are experiencing communication problems within the family. Without realizing it, parents are often still think of her as a "baby". They do not know that puberty is happening at the age of 8-13 years (girls), and 9-14 years (boys). Menstruation and wet dreams is the peak of puberty, so it should have a parent accompany the child before puberty is the peak.
Hence, Monica Beyer, author of Baby Talk, encourage parents to familiarize open communication with children regardless of age. Sexual abuse is not a pleasant topic to discuss with their children, but need to be done so that the child knows that his parents always listened when there are people who hurt them.
Give an explanation, that they can tell you when they hurt, harassed, touched, or ridicule in any way that makes them uncomfortable. Since childhood teach children about their body parts with an appropriate title, but they are easy to understand. Explain that these body parts should only be used by themselves and personally.
Say also that you would never judge them for what they gave you, but because you want to help. The only thing they need when things like this happen is the support and comfort you.

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